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Self Help: How to Ooze Charisma (part 2)

Preening your ego.

"I don't know if I can make the meeting. I've been asked to evaluate the National Volleyball team, so I'm going to be busy in October."

Talking to entertain yourself and boring others at the same time.

"I had salad for lunch today"
"Last night I dreamed..."
"Let me tell you about my last doctor's appointment..."

Talking down to people. This is a combative attempt to make others feel inferior.

"You play hockey? I'm on the National team." 
"Have you seen my new convertible?" 
"You just got back from Vegas? I've been there many times."

Complaining, talking endlessly about how you've been victimized by another person, and generally being overly dramatic.

"I can't believe he didn't talk to me. What a jerk!" 
"After everything I've done for her, she didn't even send me a birthday gift."

As you practice avoiding these ways of talking, people will naturally gravitate towards you with no effort on your part at all.

Your friend,
Lisa B.

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