Self
Help: The Key to Lovability
On April 28, 1945, Adolf Hitler
married his long time mistress, Ava Braun.
That
same night, Hitler tested out a cyanide pill on his pet dog, Blondi,
because Soviet troops were closing in on his underground bunker.
Just
two days later, on April 30, Hitler and Braun went into a private room and
took their own lives with the cyanide tablets. Hitler also shot himself in
the head.
Braun
could have become rich by writing her memoirs, but she didn't want to live
without Hitler.
Braun's
choice, coupled with the fact that millions of people worshipped a clearly
evil individual, suggests that people do not judge you solely on your
character or personality.
Self
Help: Why People Love Us
All
too often we assume that people gravitate towards us because of our
character or qualities. While these things are factors, the truth is that
people gravitate towards you based on how they feel in your presence.
This
is why you can be madly in love with a person one day and divorce the very
same person five years later.
Personally,
I find this idea exciting. It means that you never have to secretly fear
that you are unlovable.
Just
like in business and sports, your success in relationships will be
determined by your knowledge and skill in them.
If
you want to trigger love, friendship, or respect in another person, you can
learn the principles of successful relationships.
Follow
them, and you'll win in your relationships. Violate them, and people will
avoid you, no matter how attractive you are on paper.
In
my newly revised online self help course, Catapult Yourself to Success
Using Mental Toughness, I explain many many strategies for handling complex
relationship situations including:
- How to establish love and
respect with people in your life
- How to stop someone from
rejecting you, including divorce
- How to move people to
action at work
- What to say when you're
under the fire of criticism
- How to neutralize the
office bully
- How to handle moody people,
including long-standing relatives
- How to deliver an effective
reprimand
This self help training also
reveals:
- The little known truth
about negative emotions
- The mystery behind
procrastination and de-motivation and how to infuse unceasing energy
into your life
- How to remove self-created
suffering from your life (even the Dahlai Lama agrees)
- An Olympic gold medalist's
method for programming himself for success and confidence
- Why positive thinking is
overrated and how you can move through inner barriers of fear
I'd love to see you in it.
For
a complete description of the course curriculum, go to:
http://www.lisabrown.ca/catapult_course.html
Your
friend,
Lisa B.
Advanced Self Help Institute
#106, 527 - 15 Ave SW
Calgary, Alberta T2R 1R5
Phone: (403) 261-2726
Fax: (403) 261-2725
Email: info@lisabrown.ca |